Living Water: 3 Steps to Coping with Hard Times

I recently had a bit of an epiphany. It came to me in the form of a metaphor. It’s already helped me step through some tough situations. Do you think maybe this can work for you, too?

Start by picturing yourself standing in a pool of crystal-clear water. Your feet are on a solid floor, yet you feel like you are floating. The water’s surface is as smooth as glass, yet a gentle current flows against your body. Is it warm or cool? You can’t decide. Somehow it’s both. It’s perfect.

You cup your hands, take a drink, and you’re simultaneously calmed and invigorated. You’re a bit scared, yet totally content to be up to your neck in this mysterious fluid. Lightning flashes overhead and the name of the place gently rumbles into your mind. The Pool of Good News.

Suddenly you realize you are completely naked. You look all around. There is no one to be seen and yet you are aware of a Presence. It is formidable but friendly. You know you are welcome here. You belong. The Savior gave His life on the cross to make it an eternal certainty.

That’s the first step: Recognize you stand in Living Water. And you are not alone.

But just when you start to think this is heaven on earth, the unthinkable happens. Out of nowhere a bucket of freezing cold water splashes into your face. It’s more than a rude awakening. It’s shocking. Like a thousand tiny darts stabbing you all at once. You barely get your eyes open when it gets worse. A 50-gallon drum of ice water explodes on your head.

Anxious thoughts overwhelm you. “Where is the Presence?” Angry thoughts explode. “I didn’t sign up for this!”

This is the second step: Remember He told us, “Tribulations will come.”

Tribulation is hard. Have you suffered a loss? An injustice? Have you been snubbed? Dissed? Excluded? Is there a burden, a weight, a brick in the pit of your stomach? Or maybe, like me last week, a sin pattern was exposed and smacked you upside the head.

So what do we do? Life is often hard. But the next step is easy. So simple. So effortless. When hard times happen look around. You are still in The Pool of Good News, right? And the pool hasn’t changed. Not one single bit.

So here’s the third step: Sink back into the Living Water.

Go under. Go deep. Stay there until you realize you are not alone. Until you remember He is sovereign and you can trust Him. Until you are overcome once again by the unstoppable love that flows red like blood. Stay right there long enough and the ice will melt, dissolve, and some day disappear.

As you come back up let one of my favorite Joe Coffey quotes resonate in your soul,

Because of who Jesus is and what He did, no matter how bad it gets you can be sure of one thing—it all ends well.

 

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  • Michael

    Thank you! This is helping me during a tough time…You don’t know me at all Bob… THANK YOU DIANNE for posting on FB
    Michael

    • http://BobBevington.com/ Bob Bevington

      Thank you for the encouraging comment. It makes all the effort of writing worthwhile when we know it helps somebody out there–whether we know them or not!

  • Susan Moore

    Hi Bob! Ok, this works. I’ve taken the time to sit and remember some of the most difficult times in my life within the framework of this epiphany, and it works. I have to admit that my vigorous training and years as a nurse working in inner-city trauma centers has made my mind resist the idea that it is ok for me to be covered in someone’s blood, unless it is my own blood. A nurse is trained to wear protective clothing to protect herself from contact with someone else’s blood. Yet I’ve learned I can’t save myself, and that I need ‘covered’ in Christ. The image of being covered in Living Water is more agreeable to my mind than the image of blood. I trust you will understand that my mind resists the literal image of being covered in physical blood -it does NOT resist the image of being covered in/by Christ!!
    Thanks, Bob.

  • katie

    love this! made my day as i read this to remember that i am not alone…amazing-thanks for your words!!

    • http://BobBevington.com/ Bob Bevington

      Thanks you Katie! It makes writing worthwhile to know stuff we write encourages someone.

  • Kay

    powerful…all pray for our dear brother Perry Carroscia