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Bob Bevington
Full Name: Bob Bevington
Website: http://BobBevington.com
Email Address: Bob@BobBevington.com
Bob was educated at The Ohio State University where he earned a Doctor of Optometry degree in 1980. He semi-retired from optometry in 2001 at age 45, but still practices five days a month. To get an appointment call 330-644-7138. Bob has co-authored two books with his mentor, Jerry Bridges. They were both published by Crossway Books. The first was, The Great Exchange: My Sin for His Righteousness (2007) followed by, The Bookends of the Christian Life (2009). Free chapters of both books are available via links at: http://www.BobBevington.com Bob has been called "a serial entrepreneur." His latest project was Cruciform Press, where he continues to serve as Executive Director. At his church, Bob leads Oasis: Marriage/Divorce Recovery, Ye Olde Dead Guye Society (a men's reading group), The Cellar Dwellers (a community group which meets weekly in his basement), and serves as a Premarital Mentor. Nationally, Bob leads The Bookends Weekend Conference, and Five Aspects for Freedom: A Porn Workshop for Men. Bob has four children: two with his former wife, Rita, and two with his current (aka second) wife, Amy.

About Bob Bevington

Bob was educated at The Ohio State University where he earned a Doctor of Optometry degree in 1980. He semi-retired from optometry in 2001 at age 45, but still practices five days a month. To get an appointment call 330-644-7138.

Bob has co-authored two books with his mentor, Jerry Bridges. They were both published by Crossway Books. The first was, The Great Exchange: My Sin for His Righteousness (2007) followed by, The Bookends of the Christian Life (2009). Free chapters of both books are available via links at: http://www.BobBevington.com

Bob has been called "a serial entrepreneur." His latest project was Cruciform Press, where he continues to serve as Executive Director.

At his church, Bob leads Oasis: Marriage/Divorce Recovery, Ye Olde Dead Guye Society (a men's reading group), The Cellar Dwellers (a community group which meets weekly in his basement), and serves as a Premarital Mentor.

Nationally, Bob leads The Bookends Weekend Conference, and Five Aspects for Freedom: A Porn Workshop for Men.

Bob has four children: two with his former wife, Rita, and two with his current (aka second) wife, Amy.

How Well am I Counseling Myself?

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How Well am I Counseling Myself? | May 20th, 2013

How Well am I Counseling Myself?

Talk to YourselfNo one is more influential in your life than you are, because no one talks to you more than you do. How well are you counseling yourself?  In this short post from his blog, Wednesday’s Word, Paul David Tripp reminds us of the power of the internal conversations we will have today. He challenges us to talk to ourselves in ways that are consistent with Gospel truth and grace. If we do, our circumstances may not change, but our unhappiness will:

You are in an unending conversation with yourself. You are talking to yourself all the time, interpreting, organizing, and analyzing what’s going on inside you and around you. You may be talking to yourself about why you feel so tired. Or maybe you woke up this morning with a sense of dread and you aren’t sure why. Maybe your mind has traveled back to your distant past and, for reasons you don’t understand, you’re recalling events from your early childhood.

Perhaps you were surprised by how angry you got at the remark of that coworker. Or maybe you’re rehearsing to yourself your schedule for the day. Perhaps you are reliving a conversation that didn’t go too well. The point is that you are constantly involved in an internal conversation that greatly influences the things you decide, say, and do.

What do you regularly tell yourself about yourself, God, and your circumstances? Do your words to yourself encourage faith, hope, and courage? Or do they stimulate doubt, discouragement, and fear? Do you remind yourself that God is near, or do you reason within yourself that, given your circumstances, he must be distant?

Here’s the question: how wholesome, faith-driven, and Christ-centered is the conversation that you have with yourself every day? Do you remind yourself of your need? Do you point yourself once again to the beauty and practicality of God’s grace? Do you tell yourself to run toward him in those moments when you feel like running from him?

No one is more influential in your life than you are, because no one talks to you more than you do. How well are you counseling yourself? Reach out for help one more time today. Confess that you don’t counsel yourself very well, and rest in the rescuing grace of the One who is called Wonderful Counselor.

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A Picture of Dependency

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A Picture of Dependency | May 13th, 2013

A Picture of Dependency

WheelchairSo I was driving past a gas station and saw man in a wheelchair pumping gas into his handicap-accessible van. I’m sure this happens everyday but I guess I live under a rock because I had never seen this before.

It dawned on me that I would like to speak with him. So I wheeled around and headed back. But by the time I arrived at the pump he was gone. That’s when I had an imaginary conversation with him in my head. It went something like this:

Me:             Nice van.

Him:          Gets me around.

Me:             I noticed you pumping gas and wondered if I could ask you a question.

Him:          Shoot.

Me:             Do you feel dependent or independent?

Him:          What?

Me:             It seems like you are fairly independent. Considering.

Him:          Do you think I’m more independent than you? [Read more...]

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My Best Life Now

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My Best Life Now | May 8th, 2013

My Best Life Now

PurposeLately I’ve been re-evaluating my life. What I do. Why I do it.

It’s amazing sometimes how a simple blog post can bring clarity. Like this one from TheBlazingCenter. I shortened it so you could read it in less than a minute.

It starts off by challenging us to complete the second half of a verse. This sets us up perfectly to see what life is (and isn’t) all about.

Complete 1 Thessalonians 1:9b  How you turned to God from idols to…

  1. Have your best life now.
  2. Develop yourself to your full potential.
  3. Make a name for yourself.
  4. Find the love of your life.
  5. Make a difference in the world.
  6. Get your act together.
  7. Do great things.
  8. Serve the living and true God.

If you chose the last one you were correct.

Let me put the whole verse together:   . . . how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God

This is what the Christian life is all about – serving the living and true God. It doesn’t matter how we serve him. We may serve him in large ways or small ways. That’s up to him. But the point is is we are to live to serve God. Whether our lives improve or not. Whether we find success in this world or not. It’s not about success. It’s not about personal fulfillment. It’s about serving the living and true God.

In fact at times our lives will not “improve”. They will get harder. We will be persecuted. We’ll suffer trials of various kinds. But that doesn’t matter as long as we are serving the living and true God.

At times it won’t seem worth it in this life (though it always is). But it will definitely be worth it in the next life.

Years ago I heard someone preach a message on this passage:

For David, after he had served the purpose of God in his own generation, fell asleep… Acts 13:36

The preacher said this is what it’s all about – to serve God’s purpose in our generation. Not our own purposes, not our own ambitions, but God’s purpose. This really affected me as a young believer and I wanted to do this.

David served the purpose of God in his own generation and fell asleep. Wouldn’t it be great if people said that about you at your funeral? “She served the purpose of God in her generation.” Wouldn’t that be great to have on your tombstone? “He served the purpose of God in his generation.”

***Postscript from Bob:   After I finished reading this I went back through 1-7 and renounced them one-by-one. Very freeing. I hope it sticks! Then I re-committed myself to #8. I don’t want to turn away from one idol to another one!

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Don’t Bet the Farm

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Don’t Bet the Farm | May 3rd, 2013

Don’t Bet the Farm

HarryMy dad had a first cousin who lost his house in a poker game back in the 60’s. He moved his wife and six kids into the projects, got a new job, bought another house. And then lost that house in a poker game.

My dad was not a proponent of gambling.

That story takes the cake but this one from DeathandTaxes.com caught my attention:

Henry Gribbohm went to a carnival in Manchester, New Hampshire over the weekend and spent his entire life savings trying to win his kids a prize.

No, that is not the premise for an unearthed J.D. Salinger novel. It is an actual occurrence that occurred recently, according to multiple news sources. Mister Gribbohn was trying to win his kids an Xbox Kinect by winning at a $5 carnival game where you toss balls into a tub. He kept missing, and soon had spent $300. He then apparently went home and got $2,300 more. He then apparently lost all that money, too.

Seemingly blind with rage due to his poor luck and bad decision making skills, Gribbohm returned the next day to confront the owners of the stall, [Read more...]

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If this Doesn’t Encourage You, What Will?

Bob Bevington

If this Doesn’t Encourage You, What Will?

No Photo AvailableIt’s from Steve Dewitt’s blog called, It’s All About Him

Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is. And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure. (1 John 3:2-3 ESV)

Theologians call this “the beatific vision.” We will call it the greatest moment of our lives—to see Christ as he is; not as he was. Not in the weakness of his earthly ministry. Not in the weakness of his sufferings and crucifixion. Certainly not in the weakness of his death. We will not see his glory cloaked as it was during his earthly ministry when God walked among us but looked like any average Joe. Thousands “saw” him with their own eyes and they were not changed by that vision. Jesus’ glory was cloaked. It was stealth glory. Off the radar. His true identity was hidden. The demons knew who he was and cried out, I know who you are—the Holy One of God! (Mark 1:24). Everyone else missed it. Certainly the Pharisees did. The crowds got glimpses through his miracles. His disciples came the closest to seeing it during what is called Jesus’ transfiguration:

And after six days Jesus took with him Peter and James, and John his brother, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them, and his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became white as light. (Matthew 17:1-2)

For a few moments, Jesus uncloaked his true glory. It emanated from him like the sun shining in its full strength. No movie effect can come close because that light is not simply light, it is holiness and power and divine authority. The glorious Son of God. The effect on the disciples was terror at the sight of him.

His glory remained cloaked until he ascended to heaven. What is he like now? The Apostle John saw him and described him this way:

Then I turned to see the voice that was speaking to me, and on turning I saw seven golden lampstands, and in the midst of the lampstands one like a son of man, clothed with a long robe and with a golden sash around his chest. The hairs of his head were white, like white wool, like snow. His eyes were like a flame of fire, his feet were like burnished bronze, refined in a furnace, and his voice was like the roar of many waters. In his right hand he held seven stars, from his mouth came a sharp two-edged sword, and his face was like the sun shining in full strength. (Revelation 1:12-16)

This Jesus. This fully glorious Son of God. It is he who is returning and when he does, we shall see him as he is. With our eyes. He will be visible; physical. He will return. We will see him as he is. All he is. All his glory. Some will shrink in fear. But if we abide, if we remain true, we can and will have confidence in that moment for he is our Savior and Lord.

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Man vs. Cell Phone

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Man vs. Cell Phone | April 22nd, 2013

Man vs. Cell Phone

Cell Phone IdolDo you control your smart-phone or does it control you?

I have a friend who refuses to get one. He sees me fiddling with my iPhone and he waves his ancient fossil of a flip-phone at me and mouths the words, “I’m free!”

I think he’d like this poster, but I hope he doesn’t see it.

Anything can be an idol, even a cell phone. At first idols seem to satisfy, but eventually they point to their altar and demand sacrifices. The cell phone god demands our precious time and attention. Eventually it demands control–we hear the marimba ringtone and we obey.

This 2-minute clip is meant to be funny. I especially like the part where the guy whips out a banjo from behind his back and then the girl smashes the wine glass. But the second time I watched it, the deeper meaning sank in and I silenced the idol:

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Indelible Grace

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Indelible Grace | April 8th, 2013

Indelible Grace

Sometimes I like to jump-start my morning fellowship with God with songs that help me “preach the Gospel to myself.” The next time you set out to seek Him in the early morning stillness, click on this song by Indelible Grace:

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Doubting?

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Doubting? | March 30th, 2013

Doubting?

raised-headerThis free ebook should help. To the modern mind, the notion of someone rising from the dead is utterly implausible. While many believe in a historical Jesus, they find it incredibly difficult to believe in a resurrected Jesus.

RAISED? grapples with the believability of the resurrection.

Jonathan K. Dodson (MDiv; ThM) serves as a pastor of City Life Church in Austin, Texas. He is the author of Gospel-Centered Discipleship and Unbelievable Gospel.

 

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